How I could End Verbal Abuse in my Household..

Many writing or articles have talked about domestic violences, whether physical, psychological or verbal, against women. But little has revealed how men could be also objects of any kinds of violences. And this is a brief story of my personal case in my household. I'm not scared or worried if it would create a bad image of myself. I just want to share something to others, may be it can enrich anyone else experience.
After decided to stop working from my office many years ago, I become an ordinary housewife. The time goes fast and I get bored with my routine. I have bad mood, easily angry with no obvious reason. The object my anger is certainly my husband, I often speak loudly to him with careless words. Domestic violences, verbal abuse or otherwise, are certainly unjustified. However, I could not manage well my bad mood and too hard to avoid anger.

It is not true whenever people say: "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me". We know that the wounds inflicted by the cruel words are fatal for a relationship. (Source:www.selfhelpmagazine.com).

Fortunately, I have a very kind hearted husband, with deep patience and wisdom. He has never done the same thing to me, he kept silence each time I was angry. It occurs over and over, I did something bad and stupid. My soulmate is a great guy, he never condemn me eventhough I often wound him with cruel words. Be honest, in the deep of my heart I felt a little guilty, but I was so powerless to fight against my terrible bad mood.
Until one day my husband suggested me to break out of my routine by socializing with positive friends. A friend of mine asked me to join in Facebook, and another, helped me to create website. My husband knows that I like very much writing any articles. He supports and gives me a laptop. Incredible, after having a lot of activities by accessing internet, I could manage wisely my bad mood. I am very excited with my new and positive hobby, I join Facebook in which I can connect many people and share a lot of things with them. With my website, I can write down many ideas on my mind into articles. There's always best way to resolve our trouble. Now I realized that I have wasted a lot of times by getting anger. That is too bad and destructive. It's time to reflect and get start to be a better housewife. It's true that domestic violences, verbal abuse or another, absolutely unjustified and could harm or wound anyone else. End it right now ..